The Art Of Letting Go

Letting go is hard. It's become more difficult especially when you have to let go something that you really want, whether someone you really love, great opportunity or your own expectation toward something that might be impossible to you.

"The more you fight for something that is not meant for you, the more it will fight you"

Things will go smoothly went they are meant for you. Anything that feels harder than it should be or causes you too much pain is not meant for you. You may get what you want in the end but it may not last or you may not feel ease at all.

We might be feel hesitate to start letting go the things that seem impossible for us when we already halfway to reach the goals. We've tried so hard to reach that point and if we want to let go now, it will feel like waste of time and efforts that we invested in it. But nothing that you did is waste of time. Letting go is also a process of learning and a process of growth. A process that gives lessons to you for grow better. If you keep to hold on to toxic situations just because you've done too much, you will keep hurting yourself.

"When one door closes, another door opens"

Letting go helps you to move forward. We have so much things to share with other people. It doesn't mean that your life will end if you start to let go something that you can't keep it. Many opportunities are waiting for you. It might be not great as the previous one but maybe it will be more convenient to you. Some endings are not bad; sometimes they are not even endings - just a bridge to new beginning.

Try to let go. You will gonna be okay.
One day if you look back on your life, you will find yourself laughing at certain situations when you thought you would never move on from someone or how you keep holding on something that is wrong for you.

Let go of your fear, your past, your mistakes, your failures or your self-doubt but never forget what they taught you.

With love,
CK